Tanzania - Groomed for God?
In his last year as Peace Corps volunteer, James had set up computer labs across multiple schools in the Morogoro regions. One of the schools is run by missionaries: fathers from Kerala, India. We spent some time with the fathers at their retreat outside of Dar, where seven brothers from Zambia, Uganda, Mozambique and Kenya come together for an intensive year of praying as part of their preparation for priesthood. In the spirit of self-sufficiency, they keep cows and ducks, have fruit orchards and a vegetable garden.
Father John* shows us around and we get to admire the curry leave tree and all sorts of other trees which produce leaves and fruits that are used in South Indian cooking. The green fruit hanging from the tree is custard apple, and the yellow round one in the hand is a passion fruit.
Behind the house, we notice some flowers that are left out in the sun to dry.
These are hibiscus flowers and when dried are added to shampoo to die gray hair black. I was surprised to see such indulgence in vanity at a missionary retreat. Father John and the others giggle about Father Paul* and his habit, but don't seem to interfere and leave him his grooming treatment. He hand picks the flowers and leaves them to sun dry.
It seems that pampering themselves is one of the things the fathers don't abstain from. Staying in their dorms, we are given a towel and soap, and are surprised of their choice: Ayu soap, exclusive fragrance soap, with natural lotus oil. “with a special conditioner made for delicate skin keeps your skin soft and moisturized.”
What can be unpacked about this choice of soaps?
One possible explanation might be the following: since they've all decided to live a celibate life, their grooming of course isn't for courtship. But there seems to be a strong connection between maintaining one's appearance as well as displaying cleanliness and spiritual purity. Another aspect: while these vegetarian-raised South Indian fathers have given up many things in their lives for joining the seminary, they seem to have gained something else:eating meat and carving out the luxury to groom themselves.
Or maybe, Ayu is just the cheapest soap out there - the fathers are good at managing a tight budget.
*names as always changed to protect people's privacy




